The Blog Submitter:
http://www.adultblogresource.com/submitter/index.php
If you don't receive much traffic from those then try sending a couple hits to the blog directories, most blog directories sort on incoming hits, this means that when you send 1 hit you will likely get a lot more hits back. But if you never send a hit, then your blog is slowly moving down the list. You can also try to get in the toplists by placing the link back to the blog directory on strategic places on your blog.
If you don't send hits then try submitting to feedlists, there are a couple feedlists from netponders, but here is my list:
http://www.adultblogresource.com/sub...todo=feedlists
These feedlists place your blog at the top of the list when you update your blog.