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As for freehosts, I agree. The only exception could be Thumblogger, because it's there for very long time (compared to most other freehosts), offers lots of nice tools for free and has the least advertising.
Even then your own hosting and domains is the ONLY way to go, freehosts are good for newbie testing grounds or for small feeder blogs/splogs, but it's silly not to work on your own domains instead.