Pam,
Hirsute is the term.

I really would not classify you as jaded. You tend to be blunt, and personnally I like that, time is short, not trying to date.
Age is relative. One of my nieces just turned 21 and told me she felt old.

As far as tired goes, I can let you have a swig from my bottle of Geritol, if you want...
Randy
