My final goodbye - fuck life

[mikesinner]

Man, I love being miserable. I am unhappy %75 of the time but it's worth living for that %25. Life is ruff and being sad and unhappy are part of the human condition. You just have to stick it out and get through as best you can.

[gecko]

Originally Posted by Meat

OK update

I contacted the belgian police and had them go to him. Also have had a good long chat to him, hes handed his pills over to the police (they arrived when i was talking to him so nice to see they are ont he ball in belgium), and i think we can help him get thru the problems hes currently facing.

Not that there is a funny side but the belgian police thought i was the spanish police lol think that may have helped the rapid assitance but no idea why they thought i was spanish coppers lol,

That is good to hear.

[joel56]

MEAT:
OK update

I contacted the belgian police and had them go to him. Also have had a good long chat to him, hes handed his pills over to the police (they arrived when i was talking to him so nice to see they are ont he ball in belgium), and i think we can help him get thru the problems hes currently facing.

Not that there is a funny side but the belgian police thought i was the spanish police lol think that may have helped the rapid assitance but no idea why they thought i was spanish coppers lol,

Excellent!
I'm new here with only a few posts but i see you are a true community here.....
Your friend was in trouble and you didn't disappoint him. If he didn't love you in this circle of friends dear to him he'd never have posted here I think.
You've all saved his life in that a small part of him was reaching out here to all of you/his real friends, as a last hope.
Beautiful.

What works for me in rough times is putting a spin on the situation to keep it to a minimum and like an old crooner song goes 'pick yourself up, dust yourself off, -start all over again....'

[nottslad]

Hopefully by the time you read this DJ you'll be suffering nothing worse than a hangover. You're right suicide is for losers and from what I know of you, one thing you are not is a loser.

[Krusty]

shit.. i only just found this thread ..

DJ - you've got a lot of msgs waiting for you on your ICQ . *hug* There are a lot of people here who care about you - we've known you a few years and I was scared you'd cut that time short.. we're here for ya .

Meat - thanks for your help with DJ cos you seem to be the only one who could get through. Spanish police ey? lol.

[Venril Sathir]

Originally Posted by RageCash-Ben

editing out after Venril edited his post. Sorry I was harsh Venril. No hard feelings ok.

Like I said I was only hoping after reading that funny nonsense he would decide it's not worth killing oneself. Standart "don't do's" rarely work with suicidal folks.
If someone misunderstood me, my apologizes.

DJ, do you want to be remembered as a loser? Because that's what most are going to think. Do you really think your father would want to see you dead if he was alive?

[Globofun]

DJ, like I tried to explained to you Bro a few days ago, you need help, and I wish I could be closer to help you my friend!

I hope you will take those dark ideas very far away from yourself, and I know that the immediate future may not be the best for you, but you have real friends here on Netpond.

I just do not know what type of help is availlable in Belgium, but I'm sure you can just get back on your feet, and have a great future.......

Suicide is NOT a solution to anything brother........stay strong and make yourself goals, and do not forget to have a big dream, and I know you can achieve these goals, and get to your dream......

It won't be easy, but I know you can do it......we all know you can do it!

So, motherfucker.......stick around, and prove to all of us, and most importantly to yourself that you can make it!

We love you DJ........don't leave us like that!

[ScreaM]

Holy crap, I just woke up. Damn, I never thought I'd see such a thread from you, Yves. I know exactly what you've been going through all this time and I can't really blame you for thinking of suicide as the last resort.

Meat, THANK YOU man for what you've done. I don't know how I would have reacted if DJ really put himself to sleep. I owe you one.

Yves
I've saved your number and will try calling you later today. You must be asleep right now so I won't disturb you. I hope my phone provider allows me to make international calls again, lol.

Christina, if you're reading this, please please please help Yves out. If you don't want to be with him that's fine; just don't leave him alone. He needs someone to be there for him.

[gamemint]

I just read this, Hope everything is ok man, you have alot of friends on netpond for you

[Sabby]

Meat you are a true Savior

DJ sweetie please go see a doctor.



Sabby

[NY Jester]

Wow, was away all day, DJ Im sorry for your pain. And You alone can only know the severity of it. I have lost my father unexpectedly..and to say its easy would be false. You have touched so many..that is evident with the responses to this thread. Keep strong..know that there is always someone HERE to talk to.
God Bless and Be Well


Meat..good look mate..


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[Dutch Harry]

Hey frietekop what the fuck is going on dude, nothing is worth killing you're self over, i hope you get some help bro, you fucking need it.

Meat great work man.

[hardcoreblogger]

great job, meat, thanks!

DJ, bro, there are solutions to your probs and there is a great future ahead for you, even if you can't see it now. i hope you see in this thread how many friends - and strangers - really care for you. i know you'll make it mofo and one day we're gonna party together in belgium

[RageCash-Ben]

Really good to see all the messages of support. Well done to everyone who showed they care.

Dirty Jumbo - just take it easy man. One day at a time from here on in hey.

[apcwebmaster]

Mate.. I'm glad you didn't do it, I can't say I've been there but I know theres much more to live for than die for. Best of luck in the future

[mikesinner]

Also don't be such a whiny baby. at least you had a dad. Mine left before I was born and most of my moms boyfriends were crackheads. The one she ended up marrying was the worst of them all. You haven't had it half as bad as I have and I'm willing to bet there aren't to many guys on the pond that have had as fucked up a life as I've had.

Dude you've got like 17k posts on the pond so you have to be a fairly productive member of society. Stop being so selfish. There are plenty of people in the world that have it way worse than you do and they don't go around talking about killing themselves. That's a very selfish thing to do. Your in the same boat with us so don't even think you can just jump ship whenever you feel like it.

[ScreaM]

Originally Posted by mikesinner

Also don't be such a whiny baby. at least you had a dad. Mine left before I was born and most of my moms boyfriends were crackheads. The one she ended up marrying was the worst of them all. You haven't had it half as bad as I have and I'm willing to bet there aren't to many guys on the pond that have had as fucked up a life as I've had.

Dude you've got like 17k posts on the pond so you have to be a fairly productive member of society. Stop being so selfish. There are plenty of people in the world that have it way worse than you do and they don't go around talking about killing themselves. That's a very selfish thing to do. Your in the same boat with us so don't even think you can just jump ship whenever you feel like it.

That was slightly harsh considering DJ's sensitive situation but well said.

[goodspirit]

Damn! I just found this thread!

DJ, man, don't do this to us any more! Ok? You have friends here... And friends doesn't want to see threads like this!

Meat!

[GTP Dave]

In a concerted effort, Meat & myself did what we felt was right. I kept DJ on the phone, trying to talk sense into him while we had them track him down via GPS.
Nice to know technology came in handy this time around.

DJ, listen bro... show us some love back and stick around.
Sorry about the cops, but was only used as a last resort. I hope that did not break a trust between us.

As you see, there will always be friends here for you at Netpond.

[mikesinner]

Originally Posted by ScreaM

That was slightly harsh considering DJ's sensitive situation but well said.

Wasn't trying to be mean but it just makes me mad when I see people wanting to jump off the bus when they still have a lot to live for.