DirtyJumbo is still in extremely deep shit - can the pond help once more???

[hardcoreblogger]

I've had a chat with DirtyJumbo this morning. He doesn't want to continue begging people for help himself, but he has allowed me to post this. I usually have little understanding for folks with suicidal ideas (like he expressed in a recent thread when Meat and GTP Dave reacted so well), but in his case I can relate to why he had these ideas. His current situation is quite bad:

After all the shit he went through with his ex GF who ripped him off he now basically has no money and no place to stay. Right now he's staying at his mom's place but his mom will kick him out by Thursday. If no miracle happens he will have to go to a shelter on Friday and he will not be able to pursue his adult biz for the foreseeable future. His mom has a strange logic, she doesn't want him to stay at her place, but she would buy him a notebook only when he finds an apartment. There are apartments available but he has very little cash, he could cover the first month's rent but he needs about 600 euro for a deposit. If he manages to find a place by Friday he would be back in biz by next week and able to generate revenues again. If not, his future looks very dark with no possibility of having an income anytime soon (due to his past no company would employ him). He's so desperate for cash that he now tries to sell his best domain (trannyclips.com) asap. Which is a shame because he'd have to sell it below value and he'd lose a good long-term moneymaker.

I have never met DJ in real life, he's quite a crazy bugger but I do consider him a friend, he has helped me a lot in the beginning of my adult biz. I know many of you have already donated points to him recently. Is it asking too much from Netpond to help DJ again? Can we get 600 euro together for him, so he has a chance for a fresh start? That's about 870 dollars...Points, Epass, anything will do. I'll start off with 100 bucks, so we only have 770 to go! Would you like to join me with a donation? Please post in this thread if you do

[ismokeblunts]

2k points sent, good luck dj, hope thing work out

[hardcoreblogger]

thx bro, only 750 to go

[Sven800]

If you give me a paypal address, i'll donate $20. Can't swing more than that right now.

[hardcoreblogger]

any donation is welcome and most appreciated, sven, thanks! i PM you my paypal, ill forward it to DJ.

[Chimera]

I sent in 20 bucks via paypal - not much but hope it helps out some.

[Dutch Harry]

well i only have 700 points atm it is not much but it comes from a good heart lol

[LezGeri]

I can donate all my points to DJ if it's going to help him.

Do I send them to him or hardcoreblogger?

[hardcoreblogger]

You can donate points directly to DirtyJumbo, I can assist with paypal and epass payments. Please mention your donations briefly here, so we will know if we reach the goal. Thanks everyone, keep them coming

[silentwhispers]

if you pm me his epass then I can send him some money

[HaRRo]

350 points sent to his account and tried hitting you up on icq for epassporte donation

[LezGeri]

Originally Posted by hardcoreblogger

You can donate points directly to DirtyJumbo, I can assist with paypal and epass payments. Please mention your donations briefly here, so we will know if we reach the goal. Thanks everyone, keep them coming

Okay 2125 points donated to DirtyJumbo.

[Zac]

Originally Posted by hardcoreblogger

thx bro, only 750 to go

Please PM me his epass

[Cucumber]

PM me his epass and I'll send him some

[Corner_Tommy]

I can send 25 EURO thrue paypal. ( thats around 33 dollars )

[Chimera]

You guys rock. I don't know Dirty Jumbo. I don't know what he will do with a second chance if he gets it. I do know everyone deserves one though.

It is really easy sitting in the comfort of our homes to say - it can't be all that bad. I know it is even easy for me right now. I am surrounded by my fluffy white cat who loves the keyboard my middle class knick knacks in the living room and my tv going softly in the background. It is easy to believe things can't be that bad anywhere. That shelters are places to sort yourself out or something.

Five years ago....

I woke up one morning to find the last of my three children dead. My husband had died 2 years before and my mental state was...let's say bleak. After two months of not getting out of bed and wanting desperately to end my existence and be with my loved ones - a kind social worker hospitalized me. Thank god. Three months later I was released somewhat stable but with no job, no apartment and my savings spent already on a sick child (the last).
They did not know what to do with me. I did not know what to do with me. They put me in a shelter. Not a special one, the women's shelters were full at that time, but the regular kind for people who due to mental illness or drugs (usually drugs) go to. Imagine a middle class white mother married and happy, but even when widowed who is used to a nice little apartment and the comforts that go with it and the most excitement ever...a nice movie or perhaps a special date with my husband - imagine her in a place like that. Imagine your best friend or your acquaintance. It is simply not to be allowed.

I spent two months of horror there and saw every kind of vice and degradation there was possible. Threatened by knives and guns on occasion and offered "pimps" constantly. Only the fact that I could not believe people lived or existed in this way kept me from going down a road there was no return from.

Two months it took to save the money and leave that place. I learned much there but believe me if there is a way to keep someone from it...we must as a community try.
Everyone I do mean everyone deserves that second chance.

You guys are wonderful in helping him. What he does with it will be up to him but at least he can get another try.

[hardcoreblogger]

all PM's sent, thanks a lot folks, i am impresed how this takes off! there are many good hearts in the pond

[hardcoreblogger]

and thanks for sharing your personal story, chimera. anyone who hasn't gone through what you describe doesn't really know what it means. i'm happy that you didn't go down that road with no return, i hope we get this sum together and DJ will make good use of his second chance!

[Head Boy]

I'll renew all his names that are expiring in the next couple of months for him. At least that will keep them active - I think there's about a dozen with a short life.

[Cucumber]

Just sent $65 to his epass