How much till you can't take anymore?

CuddleKitty · 04-11-2008, 04:00 AM

Do you ever get to the point where you wonder just how much more you can take? How much stress and how many bad things can one person take before they flip out? The reason I ask this is because I truly wonder how many more blows I can take and keep getting back up to take more. Some of you already read about my bad weekend last Sat trying to find my lost mom. Well turns out while she was lost she wrecked my SUV. I didn’t notice that night that the auto had damage on the front and side from something she hit. Then 2 days later I get up and she has taken my SUV again but this time she tells me while she was out, that she fell a sleep at the wheel. Seems that while she was at a red light she fell a sleep and someone blowing there horn woke her up. I didn’t fuss at her; just keep the keys with me now instead up on the key holder. She went to the doctor today because she has been feeling so bad and they said she has a great deal of fluid build up. She has to have more tests in the morning to try to find out what is going on. She has cancer, a bad heart and for two weeks now she hasn’t been able to get any sleep except for when she nods off in her chair. I’m worried sick about her, stressed beyond the max from her health and the financial problems she keeps causing. For some reason my mom thinks there is a fairy that comes and puts money in your bank account when you run low. She does not keep up with what she spends, and this month alone I ended up having to pay $1,200 in bad checks she wrote and fees from the bank. I really am to the point where I am at my wits end. I told my brother for the first time since my dad died that I need help. That I have had to carry the load all these years and it’s time he steps up to the plate and helps me with some of the load. One person cannot do this on there on, I’ve tried and I am to the point where I feel I am going down a road over and over just to end up at a dead end. Ok sorry for posting this but I just had to tell someone how I feel. My brother is my only family beside my mom and well he’s never been there and I doubt he ever will be. Thanks for listening.

VG.Content · 04-11-2008, 04:06 AM

What a mess, very hard to deal with and sorry to hear it.

No offense, but maybe your mom needs to be in an assisted living situation. They have trained people to take care of her 24/7 and keep her from trouble. It will also give you room to breath and not have so much tension between you two.

chuckzom · 04-11-2008, 04:16 AM

Sometimes I get like that and I start drinking whiskey,..
I getr violent toward my insolent and degenerate family members ( mostly on my wife's side) and sometimes My mind gives out and I have to throw a beating on them,...

It usually turns out for the best because the freeloaders stay away for awhile and I get a nice relaxing weekend in the county jail.

Everyone is happy,.. I guess it is better than redrum.

VG.Content · 04-11-2008, 04:26 AM

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Originally Posted by chuckzom

Sometimes I get like that and I start drinking whiskey,..
I getr violent toward my insolent and degenerate family members ( mostly on my wife's side) and sometimes My mind gives out and I have to throw a beating on them,...

It usually turns out for the best because the freeloaders stay away for awhile and I get a nice relaxing weekend in the county jail.

Everyone is happy,.. I guess it is better than redrum.

lol this actually made me laugh.

Before I die I want to spend a drunken weekend with you man

CuddleKitty · 04-11-2008, 04:32 AM

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Originally Posted by VG.Content

What a mess, very hard to deal with and sorry to hear it.

No offense, but maybe your mom needs to be in an assisted living situation. They have trained people to take care of her 24/7 and keep her from trouble. It will also give you room to breath and not have so much tension between you two.

No offense taken VG.Content, just not something I can bring myself to do. As long as she is still able to get around the house on her own and I can take care of her, I will keep trying to do so. My brother wants us to move out to Fallon,NV and at this point I think it might be a good idea. At least that way if something happens he will be near by and I hope finally step up.

VG.Content · 04-11-2008, 04:35 AM

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Originally Posted by CuddleKitty

No offense taken VG.Content, just not something I can bring myself to do. As long as she is still able to get around the house on her own and I can take care of her, I will keep trying to do so. My brother wants us to move out to Fallon,NV and at this point I think it might be a good idea. At least that way if something happens he will be near by and I hope finally step up.

She could have gotten hurt very bad falling asleep taking your SUV, it's obvious she is out of control. Good thing she was at a light, and not driving.

She can leave anytime of night when you sleep. It could be very bad. I'm not trying to be a dick, but yeah.

CuddleKitty · 04-11-2008, 04:37 AM

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Originally Posted by chuckzom

Sometimes I get like that and I start drinking whiskey,..
I getr violent toward my insolent and degenerate family members ( mostly on my wife's side) and sometimes My mind gives out and I have to throw a beating on them,...

It usually turns out for the best because the freeloaders stay away for awhile and I get a nice relaxing weekend in the county jail.

Everyone is happy,.. I guess it is better than redrum.

lol Next time you get violent come to MS I would love for you to take that out on my mom's sick side of the family. Those damn inbred bayou sick bastards.

chuckzom · 04-11-2008, 04:38 AM

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Originally Posted by VG.Content

lol this actually made me laugh.

Before I die I want to spend a drunken weekend with you man

Bliss can come in short bursts,... you have to take it,.. or choke it,.. when it comes.

CuddleKitty · 04-11-2008, 04:40 AM

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Originally Posted by VG.Content

She could have gotten hurt very bad falling asleep taking your SUV, it's obvious she is out of control. Good thing she was at a light, and not driving.

She can leave anytime of night when you sleep. It could be very bad. I'm not trying to be a dick, but yeah.

I understand that, but if I have the only set of keys to the suv she can't drive. Now if she decides to start leaving the house on foot or by some other means then I will have no other choice because I cannot keep her locked up. I hope it doesn't come to that, but for now I am just watching her and keeping to auto away from her.

VG.Content · 04-11-2008, 04:42 AM

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Originally Posted by chuckzom

Bliss can come in short bursts,... you have to take it,.. or choke it,.. when it comes.

well we can both choke someone when we are drunk

chuckzom · 04-11-2008, 04:45 AM

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Originally Posted by VG.Content

well we can both choke someone when we are drunk

You got that right,..
Fuck those who know not the name of the game.

VG.Content · 04-11-2008, 04:49 AM

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Originally Posted by chuckzom

You got that right,..
Fuck those who know not the name of the game.

Exactly, nothing wrong with a random choking

chuckzom · 04-11-2008, 04:52 AM

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Originally Posted by VG.Content

Exactly, nothing wrong with a random choking

I'll do the shit 1970's Warriors style,... lol

VG.Content · 04-11-2008, 04:55 AM

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Originally Posted by chuckzom

I'll do the shit 1970's Warriors style,... lol

Best movie ever made.

Do you see Warriors, do you see what you get for fucking with the Orphans

chuckzom · 04-11-2008, 04:58 AM

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Originally Posted by VG.Content

Best movie ever made.

Do you see Warriors, do you see what you get for fucking with the Orphans

You get a fucking car blown up right in your fucking turf!!!

BTW,.. warriors for xbox is killer,.. fucking nostalgic.

VG.Content · 04-11-2008, 04:59 AM

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Originally Posted by chuckzom

You get a fucking car blown up right in your fucking turf!!!

BTW,.. warriors for xbox is killer,.. fucking nostalgic.

don't forget we take your girl as well

chuckzom · 04-11-2008, 05:00 AM

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Originally Posted by VG.Content

don't forget we take your girl as well

Bopp your way back to coney,..

chuckzom · 04-11-2008, 05:02 AM

The orphans could be my wife's family on my wife's side,.. and bopp my fucking way back,.. then turn around and bopp the other way.

VG.Content · 04-11-2008, 05:05 AM

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Originally Posted by chuckzom

The orphans could be my wife's family on my wife's side,.. and bopp my fucking way back,.. then turn around and bopp the other way.

lol

alright boppers lol

ScreaM · 04-11-2008, 05:06 AM

I use alcohol when I can't take it anymore.

04-11-2008, 04:00 AM	#1 (permalink)
CuddleKitty Web Design/Code Impared,but still trying Join Date: May 2005 Location: Mississippi Posts: 366 Points: 770	How much till you can't take anymore? Do you ever get to the point where you wonder just how much more you can take? How much stress and how many bad things can one person take before they flip out? The reason I ask this is because I truly wonder how many more blows I can take and keep getting back up to take more. Some of you already read about my bad weekend last Sat trying to find my lost mom. Well turns out while she was lost she wrecked my SUV. I didn’t notice that night that the auto had damage on the front and side from something she hit. Then 2 days later I get up and she has taken my SUV again but this time she tells me while she was out, that she fell a sleep at the wheel. Seems that while she was at a red light she fell a sleep and someone blowing there horn woke her up. I didn’t fuss at her; just keep the keys with me now instead up on the key holder. She went to the doctor today because she has been feeling so bad and they said she has a great deal of fluid build up. She has to have more tests in the morning to try to find out what is going on. She has cancer, a bad heart and for two weeks now she hasn’t been able to get any sleep except for when she nods off in her chair. I’m worried sick about her, stressed beyond the max from her health and the financial problems she keeps causing. For some reason my mom thinks there is a fairy that comes and puts money in your bank account when you run low. She does not keep up with what she spends, and this month alone I ended up having to pay $1,200 in bad checks she wrote and fees from the bank. I really am to the point where I am at my wits end. I told my brother for the first time since my dad died that I need help. That I have had to carry the load all these years and it’s time he steps up to the plate and helps me with some of the load. One person cannot do this on there on, I’ve tried and I am to the point where I feel I am going down a road over and over just to end up at a dead end. Ok sorry for posting this but I just had to tell someone how I feel. My brother is my only family beside my mom and well he’s never been there and I doubt he ever will be. Thanks for listening.

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chuckzom Chuckzom.com Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,623 Points: 570	Sometimes I get like that and I start drinking whiskey,.. I getr violent toward my insolent and degenerate family members ( mostly on my wife's side) and sometimes My mind gives out and I have to throw a beating on them,... It usually turns out for the best because the freeloaders stay away for awhile and I get a nice relaxing weekend in the county jail. Everyone is happy,.. I guess it is better than redrum. __________________ I am available to write custom descriptions, stories and text for your blogs and sites. Click Here for details. Breast Dump Pic Post Submit Your Pics Submit your porn links to these link dumps - Voyeur Holes \| Pass This Up \| Breast Dump

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chuckzom Chuckzom.com Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,623 Points: 570	The orphans could be my wife's family on my wife's side,.. and bopp my fucking way back,.. then turn around and bopp the other way. __________________ I am available to write custom descriptions, stories and text for your blogs and sites. Click Here for details. Breast Dump Pic Post Submit Your Pics Submit your porn links to these link dumps - Voyeur Holes \| Pass This Up \| Breast Dump

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ScreaM The Bumpmeister Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 72,883 Points: 16,360	I use alcohol when I can't take it anymore.